I first started to read this book a while back but got as far as the 1st Chapter. On Sunday I picked it up again and read the book in a few hours. I could not put it down and when I was reading the last two chapters I was crying.
To Randy… you lived an amazing life and you have left your wife and children wonderful memories of the life you lived and shared together and to Jai, Logan, Dylan and Chloe time does heal the pain but the heart will never forget the man you called Husband and Father.
In the end it is all about the memories we have with our family, friends, Colleagues and strangers. People will remember us for different things but it is the memories that will keep us connected.
I love this book and will highly recommend that you read it. Each one that reads it will take different things from this book but will take something from it.
I have taken the following:
“When I complained to my mother about how hard and awful the test was, she leaned over, patted me on the arm and said,”We know just how you feel, honey. And remember, when your father was your age, he was fighting the Germans.”
“Have something to bring to the table, because that will make you more welcome.”
“It just proves that if you can find an opening, you can probably find a way to float through it.”
“When you”re scewing up and nobody says anything to you anymore, that means they’ve given up on you.”
“He gave me a feedback loop for life.”…Coach Graham
“But my father was a man of his word.”
“The brick walls are there to give us a chance to show how badly we want something.”
“It’s easy to look smart when you’re parroting smart people.”
“He was proof, that sometimes, the most impenetrable brick walls are made of flesh.”
“….. she could see that the man had a slight smile on his face, the kind of absentminded smile a person might have when he’s all alone, happy in his thoughts…” “ I came to look at it as a feedback loop of sorts.”
“ Randy, it’s such a shame that people perceive you as being arrogant, because it’s going to limit what you’re going to be able to accomplish in life. Looking back , his wording was so perfect.”
“Let’s saddle up and ride.”
Jai.. I have four very good reasons to suck it up and keep going. And I will,” she promised”…she talks about how we’ve found strength in standing together, shoulder to shoulder.”
“I drove home under the speed limit, and I was smiling like a beauty queen.”
“Time is all you have. And you may find one day that you have less than you think.”
“Luck is indeed where preparation meets opportunity.”
“Because Tommy was passing it on.” And little did Randy know that he would pass it on as well ….
And I can continue and continue, so read this book and be inspired to meet Randy and maybe just maybe this book will change your outlook on life and who knows you can achieve your childhood dreams…..